I’m unabashedly taking a cue from fellow lovesite, Tango, and their 10 Men to Run From – Not After, because the man-on-man dating landscape is just as treacherous, and filled with traps. If you like to date just to date, and screw, consider this a walk down memory lane, and congrats. You’re probably better at the delineation between tricks and boyfriends than I ever was. If you date with an eye to commitment, monogamy, and a Crate and Barrel registry, take heed. Here’s a list of whom not to do, based on my own experiences.
- The Closeted: Apologies in advance, but dating a closeted man is the funny uncle to dating a married man. It even feels pretty much the same, especially around the holidays, no matter how good and kind he is, or how he tries to make it seem otherwise. (See also 2, and 3.) Come out boys, it’s 2008. Continue reading ’12 Gay Men to Run From’